tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8616100949455927179.post6946151409640794449..comments2023-07-08T08:15:33.588-04:00Comments on my blacks don't match: Ooopsnicolehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14623815738369735908noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8616100949455927179.post-60550347385113498842013-04-20T06:27:00.679-04:002013-04-20T06:27:00.679-04:00I know how you feel. I'm going through a self-...I know how you feel. I'm going through a self-doubt phase myself; actually it's more of doubting myself and everything and everyone around me. I so cannot wait to get over it. <br /><br />In the meantime, I'm constantly telling myself to focus on the future and things that I'm looking forward to. I always find ways to get myself out of the routine just so I realize that life is much bigger and more important than the little things.<br /><br />It also helps to focus on your progress, how far you've grown and improved through the years. <br /><br />Beckaluffagus is right about distractions, too, and the part about finding assurance from other people. It's hard to draw inner strength when you know that you're vulnerable and so being surrounded by positive people who really know you and care about you helps a lot. Fledermaushttp://flyfledermaus.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8616100949455927179.post-33740232830936610572013-03-27T21:58:44.121-04:002013-03-27T21:58:44.121-04:00PS I hope you feel better, dear <3PS I hope you feel better, dear <3Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8616100949455927179.post-70624166721549602312013-03-27T21:56:54.126-04:002013-03-27T21:56:54.126-04:00Having a support system helps a lot. I need const...Having a support system helps a lot. I need constant reassurance, though I think I'm pretty good at hiding that, or maybe I'm more passive aggressive about it (though I try not to be). I know we're not supposed to rely on other people for happiness and blah blah, but whatever, perception of ourselves often comes from others. Most of the time, I wallow for a few days, have a few good cries, and often, when I go to work, or hang out with a friend, or the boyface, I'm distracted from it. Distractions bring a lot of clarity for me. Being in an environment where I feel strong and know what I'm doing (ie work, etc) can help get rid of self doubt.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8616100949455927179.post-66646782345725986832013-03-27T17:41:47.334-04:002013-03-27T17:41:47.334-04:00For me, gut feeling every time ... and thinking of...For me, gut feeling every time ... and thinking of what you *want* out of life, not about what may be going wrong. Concentrating on the negative will bring the negative to you, and vice versa ;)Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04328537289542406921noreply@blogger.com